Was it You? Or Was it Me?

Was it You? Or Was it Me?

Were you looking away? Or was I too busy looking down? A few years ago, I would have had a much different answer. Certainly there is judgement and discrimination toward overweight people. We cause an inconvenience when a situation requires sitting closely or a shared...
Can you really change?

Can you really change?

August 11, 2013— Journal entry: “I am not sure how to do all that I need. I am scared. I feel alone. My foot hurts so bad. I am scared I am going to die.” My foot hurt because my diabetes was out of control. I could barely feel my toes anymore. By this time, I had...
The Diet Merry-Go-Round

The Diet Merry-Go-Round

In high school, I always felt an intense pressure to be skinnier. I was not medically overweight but I was certainly bigger than my friends. My mom often cooked for us—good southern cooking and always plentiful. The foods I now refer to as “junk” were...
Sitting on the Sidelines of Life

Sitting on the Sidelines of Life

How is it possible that I ever looked in a mirror or saw pictures of my fat self and still could convince myself that nobody noticed my size? I actually spent years avoiding mirrors, cameras, my reflection, even my shadow. If I didn’t see myself, they...
It All Started a Long Time Ago

It All Started a Long Time Ago

I had a good childhood. I was born and raised in Atlanta, Georgia. I was a southern peach, and with that came the teachings of how to properly entertain, write thank you notes and even how to iron bed sheets. My dad worked, and my mom was at home with us for most of...

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